Optimal solutions are often a middle ground between two extremes

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Often the optimal approach to a problem is a middle path between two extremes. This gives rise to expressions like "the pendulum swung too far in the opposite direction."

Advice is often given from someone approaching from one side of optimal: too little or too much.

If you're on the opposite side of optimal from the advice-giver, it might be fruitful to reverse the advice.